- First you must decide if you want to work for yourself or with an agency. If you work for an agency, a receptionist usually books the call or at some places the escort books there own calls.The agency takes a rather hefty sum off the service rate. The agency will often pay for your ads as well. Most escort agencies are always hiring, just look in the Yellow Pages or the back of the NOW or EYE Weekly to find an agency.
- You will have to decide if you want to do outcalls or incalls. Outcalls mean that you go to the clients house, (if you work for an agency, the agency will have a driver take you to the call), or hotel. Incall means that the client goes to your agency or to your place. Although a lot of escorts I know feel safer working indoors, it is easier to get busted if you are doing incalls, as well as you'll be at risk of Bawdy House charges.
- Stage Name. You'll need a stage name. You should use a sexy name like Vanessa, or Bridgette. Don't try anything too weird like Ms. Skank, or Mercedes. Keep it simple.
- Next up is your ad. It must be short, sexy, and to the point. EXAMPLE: "Fantasies Begin Here! Breathtakingly beautiful lady OutCalls Only. 24hrs. Natasha. 555-555-5555" One of these ads in the NOW or EYE will cost you around $100.00 per week. You could also make a larger ad (and use a picture if you want), on the web. Either get your own or advertise on an Escort Directory like the Red Zone. www.theredzone.com
- Once your ad is in place, you can sit bck and wait for the many phone calls. NOTE: If you are working independantly, it is best to have a separate phone line for your working calls since your phone will be ringing off the hook. BELIEVE ME!
- When you get a call BE SEXY. When asked what you look like OVER EXAGGERATE! For instance, I am 5"8, 135lbs, brown hair, and am a 34c. So I would say "I'm 5"8, with long legs, I'm 125lb, My hair is a rich brown colour, and it's long and wavy. My measurements are 34C-27-32." Make yourself seem fun, act as if they are a good friend that you haven't heard from in awhile. Walking around while you talk on the phone will make you sound more interested in what they have to say. You also want to agree on a price for your "time" while you are on the phone. Don't name any sexual services you provide on the phone, as your line could be tapped. Also, don't spend anymore then 5 minutes on the phone with the dude. There are lots of guys out there who get off just phoning an escort and not getting a service. Forget these losers they will just eat up your money making time.
- Decide on an outfit. If you are working outcalls it is best to wear clothes that are "respectable" in public, as to not draw attention to wear you are going or who you are with. Casual business attire is best. I always wore a blazer and a knee length skirt. Since your so darned covered up, you must wear some sexy lingerie like a corset, or teddy, or a black lacy bra. Always make sure you have garter belts on. I don't know why but guys LOVE them. And make sure your panties are OVER your garter belt and not under it. For your shoes you should wear something high but not a stilletto. Unless if you are working indoor, then you should wear sexy lingerie, and silk robes, stilletto shoes baby! Note: None of this applies if the client asks you to wear something to his liking, as long as you can accomodate him.
- If you are working indendently make sure you tell someone who is coming to see you or wear you are going. Call a friend or leave a message on the Bad Date Line 416-765-6009. If you work in an agency the agency should be rocording where and with whom your calls are with.
- When you get to a call, make sure to get your money upfront BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING!
- ALWAYS, ALWAYS use a condom for oral, anal, and vaginal sex! Many guys will try to talk you out of it but do not ever give in.
- Make sure you freshen up before or immediatley after you leave.
- Have the following handy items in your purse:
- Condoms (latex and polyurethine)
- Lube
- Make Up
- Baby Wipes
- Dog Spray
- Cell Phone
- Extra pair of stockings
- Note Book (to record the date)
Have Fun! Enjoy! Make Money!
Sex Work vs Construction Work
If you had asked me a year ago why I do sex work I would have told you that it’s because a blowjob is better than no job, that was until I tried out other types of work. Now I no longer believe that a blow job is better than no job, I KNOW that a blowjob is better than MOST jobs. Take construction for example, after 9 years of sex work and many people pestering me to "get out" of the profession I decided to try my handjob at ... OOPS I mean .... my hand at construction work as I figured since it involved being physical with a bunch of guys working on erections that it wouldn’t be a hard transition, besides I already had a lot of experience banging, cocking and screwing nuts.
I remember my first day doing construction, it was very much alike my first time doing sex work as I spent almost the entire day getting dirty on my hands and knees while banging some studs. Plus, just like my first time doing sex work I had trouble walking the day. Those weren’t the only similarities though in construction, as in sex work, the client is expected to pay up front and it’s also difficult to estimate exactly just how long the job will take. They also both require skill at handling large tools as well as a throughout knowledge on the multiple functions for industrial strength lubricant. Not to mention that not wearing the proper protection could be hazardous to your health. Another thing I learned, while renovating a kitchen, is how much in common johns have with floor tiles as just like johns if you lay them right you can walk all over them.
Of course, as I’m sure you know construction and sex work do have there differences. Only one of them made me feel tired, degraded and exploited. Plus the hard hat really messed up my hair.
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